The latter part. My group has stressed how some events call for being "classy". Dinner parties with high-ranking wizards, for example, being one of those.
I get that. I understand it.
But... "sexy"? What does dignity have to do with whatever two loving - hopefully loving - people decide to do?
idk you don't have to be in love to have a good time. But yeah that's what I'm saying dignity isn't as important as all that. Not like people think it is. Some people are really into that, you know, feeling like you're humiliating yourself. But people focus so hard on looking cool
You know I was going to tell you lust isn't really in your mind so much as in your pants but something tells me you're going to need a different tack
With humiliation it's like idk scary movies. They like feeling like zombies with chainsaws are running after them or whatever but they don't want it to actually happen. The movie lets them feel shit they normally can't but be safe about it
Liking someone ELSE feeling humiliated in bed is more complicated and honestly idk if you're ready for that kind of advanced theory right now
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deadpeople_tea) wrote2021-05-23 03:28 pm
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The latter part. My group has stressed how some events call for being "classy". Dinner parties with high-ranking wizards, for example, being one of those.
I get that. I understand it.
But... "sexy"? What does dignity have to do with whatever two loving - hopefully loving - people decide to do?
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That's just as bad as wanting to pretend to be something, or someone, that one isn't.
Love seems so... complicated. Lust, too. Takes up so much space in a person's mind.
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With humiliation it's like idk scary movies. They like feeling like zombies with chainsaws are running after them or whatever but they don't want it to actually happen. The movie lets them feel shit they normally can't but be safe about it
Liking someone ELSE feeling humiliated in bed is more complicated and honestly idk if you're ready for that kind of advanced theory right now